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Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
6/5/2020 1:35 pm

Yes, I have noticed these anomalies as well, along with my posts not showing in the Recent post list on the blogging pages. I thought it was just me. I understand your frustration.


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Mr00Fun4U 64M

6/5/2020 1:46 pm

I can only hope to fathom your frustration because you my lovely Lady put a lot of work into your blog.

I do scream when I answer a message and when I hit send it is nowhere to be found?!??

The only other frustration is how many fakes/frauds and scam artists lurk on this site.

Other than that I’m happy and healthy and always glad to see one of your written works. Thanks for your never ending drive to make this an interesting place.

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thikhead 67M
3346 posts
6/5/2020 1:47 pm

cant explain what this site does, i dont think even they know.

consolation - your posts are worth waiting for . . .

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scoupe42 60M

6/5/2020 2:22 pm

Hi my friend, I know it must be frustration that you written something and someone else's blog show up that was written later. I don't know, maybe we only allowed a certain amount of blogs. Maybe if some did two earlier blogs and then did a 3rd one, maybe the system might bump this person up first. My friend,, you are a blogger! You probably write more than most, since you are a daily blogger. I know, you think this is more of a reason to get your blog on here. But sometimes we just need to be patience. I feel everything happens for a reason! Maybe if you blog shows up later, maybe it might get a different audiences? If you look at blogs, you probably got a different audience from one time from another. Be patience, we'll get to see it!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/5/2020 2:23 pm

I told you how to fix THAT glitch... 😊 🍷🍷
Or did you forget? 🤔


bucknaked50again 63M
106 posts
6/5/2020 2:27 pm

I wrote one a couple days ago, still hasn't made it here as far as I know .... that kinda sucks, and not in the good way!


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
6/5/2020 3:16 pm

I had a new one today - delayed posting of comments.

A lady came by my blog - no comment from her was visible, but that's not unusual in her case (loyal reader / doesn't comment much). I saw about four other comments earlier in the day, and JUST NOW it's showing her comment - as the FIRST one made.

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CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
6/5/2020 3:46 pm

Delayed comments get me.

Someone replied to something I said. I go to the page to reply...and it's not there.

Save your energy and don't be frustrate. VoluptuousHotties - BBW Personals doesn't care so it's no use being angry. Life's too short to be angry so save that energy and rock that guitar


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
6/5/2020 4:14 pm

And I am still thinking of going Gold, for while now. Oh My


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/5/2020 6:03 pm

I know just how you are feeling. I wrote one yesterday and had to re-post it 4 times and then the gremlins wiped it out. I am so pissed I am not sure I can make myself re-do it one more time

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merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
6/6/2020 4:25 am

....and then there is the most unusual mystery of the deleted words right in the middle of a post..... I can't even fathom how that happens..... the strange stuff that shows up instead of an apostrophe, I sorta get..... but random missing words? .....


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
6/6/2020 6:55 am

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Basilikummen 47M
1006 posts
6/6/2020 10:05 am

Well, far be it from me to pass up an opportunity to rave like a lunatic or pontificate endlessly. Especially lately. The world has gone nuts. But I'll keep it down to just two things, neither, obviously, aimed at you.

2. Topical: Since coming back to VoluptuousHotties - BBW Personals, it's hard to imagine, but the code monkeys seem to have actually made things worse, with no discernible feature anywhere to explain why they even committed these code changes. As far as I can see, they could literally revert back to the code they used a year ago and things would improve. And here I thought they didn't know what they were doing before. Where does they money even go?

1. My biggest worry right now: I know these are tough times with COVID-19. There's a lot there messing all sorts of lives up. I get it. And so many of us are frustrated and suffering from depression, cabin fever, phobia, etc. all mixed up into one ugly scary soup. And then people do things that are clearly wrong. Sure, we should be pissed. I get that. But fucking hell can we please stop the retaliatory violence and destruction out there? Can we please just step up to be the better person? Regardless of how good the reason, this shit ain't helping anyone right now. I'm not saying get along, or forgive and forget. Fuck no. I'm just saying violence is not solving anything here folks. Glare evilly, take notes and evidence, and file your lawsuits when government reopens. And fucking vote with your vote instead of letting others vote someone you don't like to be in charge. Please stop scaring the completely innocent random population at large even more than they already are. And work positively, to make a lasting change. Power to the people. The right kind of power. We need to get things done; not make things worse. We've got more than enough bad shit already. Make things better. Be a better person. We'll love you for it. (From a socially responsible distance, with a mask on.)

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Basilikummen 47M
1006 posts
6/6/2020 10:24 am

Okay, now the ranting part out of the way, why bother with the good stuff?

Well, of course we all need a little more joy in our lives. Some of us are blessed with the gift to be creators. Whereas most of us are at best voracious consumers. It's, unfortunately, how our society pretty much works. But please don't see our lack of contribution as a disinterest or disdain for the great efforts you put forth. We appreciate and love you for doing what we cannot.

Also, not only did I see your blog entry vanish, but it caught my first response. After typing up my words, I clicked on Ye Olde Post Buttonne, and I got the weirdest darn error message from VoluptuousHotties - BBW Personals. *sigh* Clearly they done fucked up. Again. Go figure. Whatever I said in that response was lost forever.

Fortunately your entry did return, later, and hopefully my response made it and was at least partially as eloquent.

I'm honestly not sure why we put up with this shit. The coding and servers here are a fucking mess. I can only conclude, for the many good people here. You're worth it.

Even an herb as sweet as basil is nothing without its bite.
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Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
6/6/2020 11:13 am

Pretty much a ton of stuff is wrong with this joint !
Fakes that flirt with you etc... is my first rant since coming back. I keep getting notifications of flirts.. 2 days later I check my 'flirted with me' area and none are listed for 30 days although I been flirted with less than an hour ago.
Then there is the thingy that you have to use 25 points to view a live cam on here
Loading pictures and they are 'pending approval' forever
Guys are limited to how many points they can earn as opposed to women (discrimination)... I havent even focused on making points since I came back after the let me down of points when I was here before
No way will I give this place $100 bucks a year for gold membership with all of it's flaws
The 3 to 5 hour thing of blog posts is annoying. The one blog post that I did, I never did a bump reply for that reason. Waited for an actual reply to get it posted to the blog feed
Actually, like I said earlier, I will mainly lurk until this joint straightens its crap out.. prolly have to lurk forever
Oh yeah one more thing... when you move your mouse over someones icon in a blog post reply, it shows you visited their profile.... NOT
Man this is just the tip of the iceberg but I will stop here for now... at least I came back to the site for whatever reason. Wouldn't recommend it to any of my friends though cuz of the mega errors and issues

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
6/6/2020 6:28 pm

i have had this exact issue since I started blogging back in 2012. Back then, site support told me iyt can take up to 24 hours for a post to appear....I said back then why bother but as you can attest to, I'm still here. It does seem to me though that for the last few months, it is an issue even with top bloggers....site support has told me that there are issues and bugs that are because they are short staffed because of the virus!


Phoenix_9909 62M
1605 posts
6/6/2020 7:16 pm

I have found Joy that the speed in which ~this friendly site~ publishes your post is in direct proportion to how interesting the review board finds the posts and the level of sexual tension it creates. 3 or 4 hours means it must not be very interesting or contain enough sexual graphicness.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
6/6/2020 9:03 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further with venting

hmm

my biggest concern: I've posted my truthful wants in my profile, and have not found the woman of my dreams in 6 years here

I'm still waiting

hmm

be safe

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All the different stages, memories of us
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Writing all our pages, every single thought
I know you don't like when I'm nostalgic
No you've never tried to understand
Say you're doing fine, don't think about it
Like I do
Sorry for writing all the songs about you
I know that you hate that I got more to say
Sorry for writing all the songs about you
But I had to, oh, I had to
Swear no one will know that every moment was true
All the mistakes and why you ran away
Sorry for writing all the songs about you
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so_fthnds 44M

6/6/2020 10:33 pm

I feel your frustration author! There was a time being a standard member had some benefits to entice the movement to become a Gold member. Then you here that even being a Gold member the benefits you have rarely work so why put hard-earned dollars for something that is not on par with the way a site should be.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
6/7/2020 9:56 am

My gripe concerns the fact that lotsa bloggers from back in the day took their talents far away. (Many claiming that the site frustrated them too damn much).

Anyway, your post got me thinking of some of them, so thanks for that.

blog on!


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