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I think when both feel comfortable, have at it!!! Could be instantaneous or could take awhile.
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12/26/2018 2:59 pm |
voted and personally I don't feel I could just meet and get intimate as I dislike hook ups which it pretty much is ...I prefer an fwb situation as I am just widowed a couple years and am disabled because of an accident ..I want to feel a bit secure first...so far its been going good..
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12/26/2018 3:00 pm |
There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable
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I want some time to get comfortable with her and the time can vary from person to person. Certainly don't feel comfortable going from online to meeting for sex. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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All kinds of scenarios!!! But trust comes first (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Within 30 seconds of sending them a dick pic. C======3 At least, that's how I assume I'd like it to go. I'll let you know if it ever happens Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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It all depends on the person and the feeling that may be there. Sometimes you can just click and want to go for it. Then you have other times you want to what and learn more about the person. But most the time when you do sleep with someone right after meeting it never seems to really last.
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At least time for me remove my hat (s) [image]
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When both persons are comfortable with each other .
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It varies, as everyone is different, and every situation will be different. You could hit it off great through emails, chats, and texts, though when you do meet face-to-face... hmm, no chemistry? It has happened. On the flip side of that is your interactions with one another here, phone calls/texts, produce an interest, but nothing major until you meet... then WHAM! You're struck by lightning. One can never tell. "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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depends on where you meet them, if you meet them on a site like this, then your both on the same mind set, should be quicker, On a regular dating site, take some time, you don't know what they are after
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Depends on the person, and situation. I went on 4 dates, and multiple phone, and text conversations before I was comfortable enough to be intimate with one woman. While after weeks of texts, and phone calls with another woman it only took a couple of drinks in person before we were undressing each other as quickly as we could. Then the last woman I will mention we had a very heated conversation late one night that ended in each other’s naked embrace by morning time. For me it all depends on how comfortable I am around her, and she has a lot to do with that, mood, attitude, or just vibes she’s putting off. I don’t think there is a right amount of time, or should you put a time limit on it. Go with the flow, go with your own gut feeling, and never let someone change what you’re feeling inside. I can say I never regretted being intimate with any of these women regardless of the amount of time I did, or didn’t know them.
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12/26/2018 8:19 pm |
Each situation is unique with different circumstances and experience levels. But mostly when both are comfortable. It could happen quickly, or it could take time. I do tend to think if it happens immediately or very soon.... it's normally not going to last.
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A lot of different factors play into it. Lot of it depends on the person too.
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If it feels good? Do it!
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depends on the person
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12/27/2018 2:58 am |
just take it moment by moment
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Long enough for them to return to their default rather than “best foot forward” behavior and to know them well enough to not make them the next “biggest mistake you’ve ever made.”
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12/27/2018 5:00 am |
Depends on person. I had it both ways. You kinda know which way its going to go
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Hah! Ideally, I'd like to know the person for a while first, but, in the real world, if the mood strikes us both...
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voted.... not into it for a hook up...im not a fly by kinda person....so i need to know the person is sincere and not nuts and not looking to satisfy an experience that they desire. That takes time and a certain connection.
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12/27/2018 6:24 am |
Its all about the chemistry!!!
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12/27/2018 6:44 am |
a few minutes, afew days. It depends on person and chemistry, and of course, timing.
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12/27/2018 11:33 am |
I think it obviously depends on the person, but it also depends on the situation. Monday morning exchange glances and smiles at the gas station. Or Friday night exchanging glances and smiles at the bar after a few cocktails.
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1 post 12/27/2018 12:54 pm |
The question was “the least amount of time”. My answer to that would be, at least a couple hours. That’s the least amount of time it has taken for me and a partner to be comfortable enough with each other to engage in sexual activity.
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30 to 60 days....all depends.
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12/27/2018 2:22 pm |
I agree depends on the person
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12/27/2018 3:05 pm |
Depends on person. One girlfriend it was less than 30 mins after first meeting in a bar and she was sucking my cock, but we pretty much were both gagging for it that night
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My days of picking (or trying) up woman for sex are long gone. I much prefer getting to know someone and making a connection first. Now it's possible that can happen very quickly.
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12/27/2018 9:50 pm |
Depends on the person and the trust and comfort level you have with each other. Sometimes, it's just automatic!
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Of course you didn't clarify which even is the ideal time ... so I'd say that research has shown that most women decide within the first 15 seconds if a man is fuckable. Men gawk at that fact and not realize that strategy her eye contact can be subsumed as strategy too. Men are the gas women are the brakes - it has been said, probably by some backseat driver. So extending that metaphor ... the vehicle traveling is the intimacy. How soon is now?
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12/28/2018 7:48 am |
cliche as it is......it IS all about the chemistry.......physical, emotional, and mental
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12/28/2018 11:19 am |
Mmmm mmmm mmm
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Well I think it all depends, I am a bit older but I am sure things may somewhat be the same. I have met women at a bar and had sex that evening. Then again it might of been a date or two before sex.
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If I am just looking for a one night stand, there is not reason to wait.
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12/28/2018 9:02 pm |
It depends on the chemistry. With some people you click, with others you clack!!! Lol
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12/29/2018 1:04 am |
("What is the least amount of time that you think you should know someone before you become intimate") use [post 4173796] in your messages. I think and not because I am a guy if u feel right then go ahead and do what comes naturally. it also depends on each person. guys will fuck almost anything if it wants to be fucked. it is not a bad thing if u have sex on the first date. for me sex is nice.
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12/29/2018 4:00 am |
sweet i like it when they do that
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Been to a swingers and have had sex with a few women and I cannot even tell you there name. It was all about recreational sex
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It really depends for me. I have taken a hotwife to my apartment after one day of chatting, I've taken girls home from the bar, and i've chatted with some women for months before we could meet. Invariably, the buildup makes it better, so long as the time is within reason. A few weeks at most. When it gets to months, then others will take your attention away. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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12/29/2018 1:24 pm |
I am just looking to fuck as love as they are DDF no need to wait
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got to see if there is chemistry
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Chemistry? I'm on this site to fuck, meet strangers in a hotel room, intense kissing as soon as he enters the room. sucking his cock after 1 minute. Don't wanna know his life,will never see him again. Y a tout ce qu'on doit taire, tout ce qui ne se dit pas… JJ Goldman
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12/30/2018 8:46 am |
all depend of chemestry but when they first see my bulge normaly they are curious to see morelovelystretcher
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It always depends on what chemistry/magic ignites upon meeting. Maybe the sexual desire will be immediate, or maybe it will be interest and a need to know more. Haven't we all had those experiences??? Basically, it's always what you feel most, and not to over think it . . . and to miss/lose something that intuition tells you will be unforgettable!
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It seems that most of us feel the same, it depends on chemistry and the situation.
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1 post 12/31/2018 8:15 am |
nice tits love them
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12/31/2018 9:18 am |
Very interesting.
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if we talk for a few and agree what we want out of us hooking up
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Never to soon
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It depends on who it is, and where. It's all about the instant connection, and chemistry. It can be as quick as a few minutes, or several days. I have met women during my airline career, where we hooked up right away. Other times, it takes a few dates.
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1/2/2019 12:28 pm |
I like to get to know a little bit about a woman before I hop in bed with her. I've been put into too many uncomfortable situations, and mostly a chemistry between two people turns good sex into great sex.
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1/3/2019 3:59 am |
I like to get to know someone before having sex
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1/3/2019 4:48 am |
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1/3/2019 5:00 am |
Surely it is all to do with chemistry. On occasion there is that instant mutual attraction where one literally cannot wait to get down and dirty. On another occasion a little chat, a few dates or even long term communication may be appropriate. There can be no hard and fast rules governing attraction.
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After we say hello.
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each person an each situation is different
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Depends on connect & chemistry between the two
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just present yourself
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I love having sex with my friends. It is very exciting when we both know what turns each other on and share feelings along with sensations. Having said that, I have had some very exciting experiences with total strangers a few times too!
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for me it has been as little as 10 minutes,and few times it was months,depends on the circumstances and person. the 10 minutes, makes me sound like a slut, but i had girl/girl fun with her"my roommate at the time, her and i talked about a 3some with her boyfriend, whom worked away at the time,and i had never met,i came home from work,knew he was coming over soon, went and showered, came out of the shower and he was there and they were already busy in my bedroom, thought this is a open invitation, walked up and said hi, can i join, she said please, he smiled and said HELL YES, so even less than 10 minutes, but enjoyable, hehehe, my first 3some, actually went through my mind i should wait, but thought i would chicken out if i thought about much, so i just seized the moment.
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1/4/2019 9:23 pm |
The shortest amount of time was about 5 min after meeting we talked a little over the internet and she asked me to meet up and cum in her pussy. I meet up with her she said after about 5 min of talking can I suck your dick
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I agree the genuine people here just wanna fuck. I’ve fucked a few women who I didn’t necessarily find attractive but boy could they suck a cock!!
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1/5/2019 9:40 am |
2 nd wife 1 night stand togather8 yrs ..3rd wife same 12yrs
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2-3 dates is the safest in my opinion.
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It all depends on the chemistry, situation and mood... no formula.. just go with the flow.
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It depends...have had situations when we clicked immediately, other times several meetings and a lot of chat time.
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When we meet I Phon (F) will fuck for any man my husband has selected straight away
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1/7/2019 2:44 am |
Love this comment hahaaa...Im so ready to meet and fuck a hot woman...
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it depends on how "HORNY" you are.
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If you are looking to fuck, then only enough time to say "Hi"
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1/7/2019 11:03 am |
Though in actuality it really depends on both parties and how they feel. Some can nervous about it so it may take time, others the chemistry and feel may just be right for it to happen right then and there. It also depends on attraction level based on appearance, personality, or other attractive factors. So every experience is different.
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1 post 1/7/2019 6:56 pm |
It depends on the chemistry/energy you feel when you meet. I normally like knowing someone for a while, but I’ve had it occur in less than 2 hours after meeting. Very intense sex. Sometimes you just feel it.
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1/10/2019 1:42 pm |
Depends on the person, the chemistry, your level of trust in them, your willingness to take risks, etc. And let's face it, hormones can tilt many of us toward taking risks we might not take when we're not quite so horny.
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I had spent several weeks talking with women, then had a date or two to get to know them before jumping in the sack
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Not with all women but some definitely
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well im here for NSA so i think this is different for everyone. i want a women to want me tho. i like to talk a few times just to make sure. i refuse to pressure anyone into sex or anything else for that matter. just my nature i guess.
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depends on the 2 people involved and the vibe they feel for one another. If it takes one meeting to get it or if it takes a few meetings. Your comment has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age)
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1/20/2019 1:35 pm |
Just go with what feels good to you and it will work out
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1/23/2019 5:41 pm |
I walked around with a chemistry set few minutes in bar in my day
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1/31/2019 8:29 am |
it all depends...if you chat with someone and the chemistry is right, that could be all it takes, but it could take a few dates or chats to feel comfortable with that person. I also think it would be different for women opposed to men. It's a crap shoot....lol
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2/1/2019 5:12 am |
if the chemistry is right from the first mn of the meet up i don't waste time
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2/5/2019 1:36 pm |
It really depends on the situation.
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In a swinging party say a half hour of chatting
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2/7/2019 11:06 pm |
][ voted other... You may come too know in that very first Minute/Look/Touch/Kiss,,, ,,, or maybe not ever ~
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it just depends.....
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It depends on the personality of both the partners. After all its a joint work for a single goal.
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2/24/2019 10:31 pm |
10 minutes for me but the lady just wanted a fuck normally like to get to know them first.
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It depends. On other vanilla sites I ran into a couple that wanted it right away. Kinda made me leery about their ulterior motives. But on here hadn't really made any contacts yet but as a rule I like to chat a couple of times first.
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3/6/2019 4:29 pm |
If a hot woman came up to a guy alone in a room and undid his fly and started to work on him, few guys would complain.
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Not at all in my fantasies. In real life though I want to know that person. Erotica inspired by lust Boyhood Crush Athletic Cougar Deflowers Teenager The Work Experience Restroom Ecstasy The Lettings Agent Please vote and comment
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3/12/2019 10:45 pm |
Yeah, we are all horny here and want to fuck.
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3/26/2019 7:11 am |
the last time,,,,,it was the time it took to drive to my place and to the bed
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