Currently living on the east coast so if your more than an hour away we really dont need to chat. Unless you’re coming into our town for an extended time, we just don’t have time to chat with people far off. We’re contacting those we find interesting. We’re no longer using our hall-passes and going back to playing together in July 03. Hubby does the initial interview for worthy candidates. Seriously, I don’t have the time to chat with everybody that sends a request. Hubby returns in July….we enjoyed our hall passes a few times and now it’s time for us. DEFINITELY NOT USING INSTANT MESSENGER ON THIS SITE. No time to chat so ease off the hey, how are you thing. We get like ten or more each day and it’s just too much. Even radio stations ask that when you call in, don’t ask how the host is doing as it waste air time. Everyone is doing fine so skip to something more useful. Married couple for 25 + years and high school sweethearts as well. We like to party on occasion which involves the both of us getting everything clean, shaved, and ready.